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Three Months After Naina Kaur Was Killed By Spurned Lover Sherkhan, Her Old Parents Are Alone And Penniless

  • Organisations which had promised them help initially are now completely missing in action. The old couple now has to worry about its next meal, and physical safety.

Swati Goel SharmaSep 11, 2020, 12:22 PM | Updated 12:33 PM IST
Late Naina Kaur's parents

Late Naina Kaur's parents


On the afternoon of 9 September, I received a call from Baldev Singh, father of 20-year-old Naina Kaur who was stabbed to death by her stalker in June. The killer, Sherkhan, was known to Naina and was in a one-sided obsessive love affair with her. He was also a Tik Tok celebrity of sorts with more than 4 lakh followers.

Singh, 63, now lives alone with his 57-year-old wife Neelam Kaur in their one-room tenement near the Ghaziabad border in Uttar Pradesh.


I reached Singh’s house in Tulsi Niketan colony around 7 pm. The multihouse building, with plaster fallen off at places and poor lighting, looked cold and uninviting. Fortunately, a cousin who works in the area promptly arrived to accompany me.

Building where Naina’s Parents live

I had earlier met the old couple a week after Naina was killed on the evening of 17 June, a few metres from the building. After the report, a religious organisation reached out to me, with the promise of helping the poor, ageing couple.

I now learnt that none from the organisation cared to contact them. No representative of the government met them either.

Naina was killed a few days before her wedding. Along with her parents and aunt Balvant Kaur, she was scheduled to take the Golden Temple Mail on the morning of 20 June from Delhi’s Hazrat Nizamuddin for the ceremony in Indore, Madhya Pradesh.


“The family had agreed. They told us they would arrange a room for us there. We were happy. After all, we have no relations in this area other than my sister,” he said. “Even she is a widow.”

Singh was more than 40 years of age when Naina was born. Some years before her birth, they had adopted a girl from within the clan. She is married and lives in Chandigarh, but does not visit her parents.

“Her in-laws don’t allow her to. She is our child alright, but has little ties left with us,” said Singh.


Naina’s murder not only shattered the family emotionally, but has also left them penniless. Within a few weeks into the countrywide lockdown imposed in March, Singh lost his job. It was a private job in a factory, where he repaired machines. “The owners made a list of people who had crossed 60 years of age and fired them,” said Singh.

Naina was studying at a nursing school and working part-time. Her salary was sustaining the family while Singh spent his meagre savings of Rs 60,000 in wedding preparations. “Ab to hum bilkul khaali ho gaye [we are broke],” he said.

Last month, the family got their electricity bill for three months. It was Rs 3,000. Singh had no money on him at all. Neelam Kaur said they are unable to even cook regularly, let alone pay the bill. “We are struggling to pay even for the gas cylinder. A woman in the neighbouring house, who we call ‘bahu’, is kind enough to give us meals. Whenever she cooks something, she offers some to us,” she said.

“We eat frugally. I eat two rotis and she eats one or two,” said Singh.


“I never heard from him after that. The bill has not been paid either,” said Singh.

Penury is only one of the problems the aggrieved family is dealing with. They are also scared for their lives. Neelam is the only witness to the murder. The case hangs on her testimony.

In my last visit, she had narrated what she saw:


Around 8 pm on 17 June, the three went to the local market to buy a new mobile number for Naina. On their return, Neelam and Naina stopped at a food cart while Baldev Singh continued to walk towards the house.

“We were waiting for the theli-wallah to pack our food. Just then, a man got off a scooter, wrapped his arm tightly around Naina’s throat and dragged her inside a lane. He began to stab her manically. I struggled to get my daughter out of his grip, but only managed to tear his T-shirt and face mask,” she said, adding that “it was Sherkhan”.


Two men waited on the scooter while Sherkhan stabbed Naina. First on the throat, then on the waist. Sherkhan then hopped onto the scooter and the three fled, she said.


A few days after the murder, the Tila Mor police arrested Salman, Ashiq alias Asiz, Aamir Choudhary, Imran and Rizwan along with Sherkhan. Some of these people rode Sherkhan to the spot, some helped him buy the knife and later escape, and some gave him shelter after the crime.

Baldev Singh said the police have asked Neelam not to leave Uttar Pradesh for the court trial. “Sometime back, we thought we should shift to Jamshedpur, where I was born and where my brother lives. We have a small but own house there,” he said. “But we cannot. Though we are scared, we want to give the testimony in court.”


Singh’s current house – which is only a room with a tiny space carved out for kitchen and bathroom - is in his name, but he is yet to pay around Rs 60,000 to the developer. He said he got the house under a jhuggi jhopdi rehabilitation scheme of the government. He said he has paid about the same amount in instalments so far.


In a tragic contrast to the condition of Baldev Singh and Neelam Kaur, the family of the accused, Sherkhan, has been running their garment showroom in Sunder Nagri market as before. After the murder, the showroom was closed but was back in business after a week. Sherkhan has four brothers and three sisters. Their father died seven years ago, and mother Kehkasha helps in the business. The live on on a floor above the showroom.


The tallest building in the picture is of Sherkhan’s family


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